Cat climbing out of bag

As proof that secrets don't stay that way for long, word of our planned Iowa move got out in two unexpected ways recently. Maybe secret is too strong a word. What is the word for news that you haven't told many people that is suddenly known by many? "Gossip" sounds negative. "Viral" too internety. Anyway, here are the two examples. Maybe the word to describe them will reveal themselves later.
First, I heard from a woman in Wyoming I've corresponded with once or twice because she is the editor of the newspaper in Kemmerer, and we've both written a piece about the same subject matter. Her name is Sara Millhouse. Because her piece referenced mine, her name came up in my Google news alert. Now she writes to say she's going to Bellevue to run the newspaper there. I knew about that job because of my Google alert set to Bellevue. I contacted the folks who run the paper not to apply for the job, of course, but just to introduce myself to members of the local journalism community. Now I'll have another Wyomingite in Bellevue ahead of me: Sara Millhouse. I'm very happy about this news.
Second, my 91 year old mother lives in a nursing home in Kansas City. She is mentally alert but I didn't want to tell her about the planned move until it was a little closer to reality. The move is more than a year away. Plus, I wanted to tell her in person. Instead, my sister Leslie asked my mother about it, and so of course that made my mother worry and fret about it to my other sister, wondering if I'd already moved, and so forth. I had sent my sister Leslie a photo of the house and invited her to call me on the phone so I could tell her my plans. She did not. Instead she asked my mother. This is what happens when families unravel.
A word for all of this? Not sure. But I guess there's not much reason to put off linking this blog to JulianneCouch.com, now is there!